Prom, conversation, bingo: Seniors seek socialization

Prom, conversation, bingo: Seniors seek socialization

Phoenix senior homes held a prom in January to give their residents a special event with live music, dancing and a chance to dress up and socialize. Socialization is key to mental health and well-being for senior citizens.

Elaine Galusha, right, dances with Bob Platek during a prom on Jan. 27. “These are vibrant-life communities,” said Kim Wood, director of wellness programming at Savanna House. (Photo by Kevinjonah Paguio/Cronkite News)

Elaine Galusha, right, dances with Bob Platek during a prom on Jan. 27. “These are vibrant-life communities,” said Kim Wood, director of wellness programming at Savanna House. (Photo by Kevinjonah Paguio/Cronkite News)

GILBERT – Prom. It’s something that usually happens in high school, but not for the residents of Savanna House. On a Saturday afternoon in January, these senior citizens were full of excitement, anticipating the under-the-sea themed prom awaiting them.

One of those seniors, 77-year-old Carol Dudash, relished the primping and prepping of getting dressed up for the event. Step by step, she used her walker to get to the bathroom. With some help from volunteer Joya Haymon, she applied makeup – a rarity. Light strokes brushed on the foundation. A touch of lip gloss brightened her lips.

Carol Dudash, 77, gets some help from volunteer Joya Haymon in applying makeup on Jan. 27. “You’re in a society,” Dudash said. “You feel like you’re in society; you’re not shoved somewhere in a hole.” (Photo by Kevinjonah Paguio/Cronkite News)

The Savanna House seniors were joined by residents of two sister communities – Sky Vista and Sky Ridge – who were also excited to break up their daily routine with something special. All three facilities are owned by MBK Senior Living. For some, it was a moment to relive memories of long-ago proms; for others, it was a chance to attend prom for the first time. For the residents of all three communities, it was a chance to meet up and enjoy a fun afternoon.

Joya Haymon, a volunteer, applies makeup to Priscilla Jones’ eyelids on Jan. 27. Jones and other Savanna House residents were preparing for a prom.

La Verne Brennan gets some hairspray applied to her hair in preparation for a prom on Jan. 27. “We try and spice things up every once in a while with something bigger and more exciting,” said Kim Wood, director of wellness programming at Savanna House. (Photos by Kevinjonah Paguio/Cronkite News)

Left: Joya Haymon, a volunteer, applies makeup to Priscilla Jones’ eyelids on Jan. 27. Jones and other Savanna House residents were preparing for a prom. Right: La Verne Brennan gets some hairspray applied to her hair in preparation for a prom on Jan. 27. “We try and spice things up every once in a while with something bigger and more exciting,” said Kim Wood, director of wellness programming at Savanna House. (Photos by Kevinjonah Paguio/Cronkite News)

After finishing up their preparations, Savanna House residents boarded paratransit buses outfitted to assist people with limited mobility. After a short ride, they arrived at their destination: American Leadership Academy’s Gilbert North 7-12 campus. As they got off the buses, they were greeted by academy students who escorted them to the gymnasium. Entering the gym, they walked under a balloon arch and were greeted by the live music of a three-man band.

Residents of the three assisted living and memory care communities made the prom their own. They chatted, sang, danced and laughed throughout the afternoon. The chorus of Neil Diamond’s “Sweet Caroline” echoed off the gym’s walls and inspired people to sing along with chants of “Bum! Bum! Bum!” Dudash stayed in her chair but moved to the rhythm of the music and enjoyed taking part in this lively event.

Earl Isom tosses a pingpong ball during a prom on Jan. 27. The American Leadership Academy’s Gilbert North 7-12 campus hosted. (Photo by Kevinjonah Paguio/Cronkite News)

The under-the-sea prom was a unique excursion that provided an important aspect of life that is integral to senior citizens’ health: socialization.

The growing number of older Americans in the U.S. population is considered “unprecedented in U.S. history.” In 2010 there were 40.2 million Americans age 65 or older; by 2022, that number had risen to 57.8 million, a 43.8% increase, according to the U.S. Census Bureau. Arizona’s older population is following the same trend; in 2010, there were over 880,000 seniors while in 2022 that number reached over 1.3 million, growing by 56.1%.

Judy Haas, 82, listens to Norma Voels during lunch at Savanna House in Gilbert on Feb. 20. Savanna House is an assisted living and memory community. (Photo by Kevinjonah Paguio/Cronkite News)

According to the Population Reference Bureau, a nonprofit research organization, the U.S. population numbers are projected to increase to 82 million by 2050, making the U.S. population older today than it has ever been.

Socialization is a key way to improve the overall health of this growing population. A 2021 study published in PLOS ONE, a science journal, found that “having more daily social interactions, especially more pleasant social interactions, related to better cognitive performance.”

“Everybody needs to feel loved,” said Kim Wood, director of wellness programming at Savanna House. “It doesn’t matter who you think you are, everybody needs a sense of self-worth, a sense of belonging, a sense of purpose.”

Patricia McCormick listens for the next number to be called during a game of bingo on Feb. 20, 2024. “Just knowing that you have someone that you can go to if you’re feeling down and out,” McCormick said when asked why socialization is important. (Photo by Kevinjonah Paguio/Cronkite News)

Savanna House has implemented regular opportunities for its residents to socialize, such as group exercise, get-togethers to catch up on current events and bingo. These activities provide residents a way to break up daily routines that can become mundane. If opportunities for socialization don’t exist, Wood said, residents would grieve “for their past life” and “lack of independence.” Residents echo this.

Patricia McCormick, 82, joins a group of seniors to recap current events at Savanna House in Gilbert on Feb. 20. McCormick has lived in the community for a year. (Photo by Kevinjonah Paguio/Cronkite News)

“It would be very lonely if I didn’t have someone else to talk to,” Lillian Harris, 77, a two-year resident at Savanna House, said.

“I’d be like a vegetable, eventually,” Dudash, a five-year resident at Savanna House, said. “I’d wither away. ”

Socialization includes both resident-to-resident interaction and connecting with staff.

“Everybody that works here can remember your name and acknowledge you, and that makes you feel more like a person instead of a patient,” Harris said.

Dudash appreciates the efforts staff take to make sure she is OK. Whether it is asking if she is doing all right or if she needs assistance with a task, she values the little things. The laughter of younger staff members is enough. “You’re in a society,” she said. “You feel like you’re in society; you’re not shoved somewhere in a hole.”

From left to right, Donna Jean “DJ” O’Connor, 95; Wanda Flesch, 87; Barbara Boyd, 87; and Patricia McCormick prepare to play bingo at Savanna House in Gilbert on Feb. 20. Bingo is one way residents meet up and socialize. (Photo by Kevinjonah Paguio/Cronkite News)

The Savanna House uses socialization as an effective tool to combat detrimental effects of aging, like loneliness and isolation.

“It brought more life into me,” Dudash said.

Kevinjonah Paguio

News Visual Journalist, Phoenix

Kevinjonah Paguio expects to graduate in May 2024 with a bachelor’s degree in journalism and a minor in global studies. He has interned at the Reynolds Center for Business Journalism, is now an intern with AZ Big Media and has freelanced.